It's quite frustrating that every time my leave is just for the kids, to catch up some sleep or to nurse a cold.
I need a day to just do nothing. really. just read a book, some fashion magazines, surf net, listen to music, laze around ...basically just relax. but no. I haven't got the chance to do that.
To make things worse, yx has been whining and crying every morning since beginning of March. Her behaviour actually improves alot this year and by February she could wave goodbye and enter the childcare gate happily without struggling for mummy or daddy. But ever since one of her form teachers left and her favourite teacher went on leave for a few days, coupled with the new teacher and students, she went on an emotional ride again. It took her almost half a year to adapt to the teachers and students and I reckon these changes made her feel insecure.
I tried breaking things down into pieces and reason things out for her, but it seems like she still need more time.
Me: Did you cry this morning?
yx: (sheepishly) yes...
or sometimes:
yx: (no answer, smile and uses bear pillow to cover her face)
Me: Why did you cry this morning?
yx: cos scared of teacher.
Me: Which teacher?
yx: ..............
I am still trying to help her to adapt to changes and I hope she is able to overcome it and emerge a better person. This is definitely an important life lesson for her. =_=
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